Wet for Her Review: Tomboi Harness Briefs & Fusion Dildo Strap-On

As y’all know, supporting female owned and operated businesses — and ones that are inclusive and representative of LGBTQ2SIA+ — is my jam. So, when I discovered Wet for Her — a WLW sex toy company out of California — I was all in. Part of their ethos is encouraging others to develop a healthy sexuality both individually and within a partnership, and finding sexual harmony within that journey whether it be with or without toys. Any company that takes part in assisting others to reclaim and own their sexuality is one that I hold in highest regard, and why I am so supportive of these queer babes. (Ok, can you tell I’m smitten? Now back to the review!)

Being the Femme Daddy that I am, I was super pumped to try the Tomboi Harness Briefs and Fusion Dildo. Unlike other harnesses which typically strap on to the body like a belt (hence the term “strap-on”), the Tomboi is a brief-style harness with a built-in O-ring for your dildo. The briefs also come in a wide range of sizes to fit all bodies and are true to size. My partner and I both appreciated the versatility of the Tomboi, which comes in both bikini-cut and boxer-brief style. This works very well for us as a hard femme and a soft tomboy couple.

First things first, the aesthetic of this strap-on is hot as fuck. My partner got all googly-eyed when she saw me in it, which then made me extra excited, as the one thing that turns me on most is seeing my partner get all hot and bothered. As my partner and I are both comfortable with being switches in bed, she was more than happy to oblige strapping me as well. And what Daddy wants, Daddy gets, amirite?

We found that the briefs felt really nice and snug against the body — which is ideal for a harness, considering you and your partner are going to be doing a lot of, shall we say, “maneuvering.” The Fusion dildo slipped into the O-ring easily, and for the most part didn’t move around during penetration.

The dildo itself is amazingly soft and silky to the touch, made of 100% medical-grade, body-safe silicone — which provided a really nice, smooth slide. We decided to go with the small Fusion, which is akin to two fingers in width and just over 5 inches (perfect for beginners and those who find they are a bit “tighter”). Wet for Her also has a very thorough and helpful size guide on their website to assist you with choosing the best option for your ultimate play-sure (ayooo!!).

It’s important to note when giving and receiving to make sure you always have plenty of lube on hand to make the experience pleasurable for everyone involved! As with any silicone toy, water-based lubricant is safest to use, as oil and silicone lubes can break down the material of the dildo over time.

A fun feature of the Fusion dildo is that the base is molded with a raised groove to fit nicely in between your labia and provide clitoral stimulation while strapping your partner. The one thing that we both noticed when strapping — and literally the only downside to the product as whole — is that the base of the dildo didn’t fit onto either of our vulvas very comfortably. While I understand the intention behind this concept, the execution of it could be more mindful of the unique shapes, sizes, and sensitivities of each individual, rather than a “one size fits all” design.

Overall, we thoroughly enjoyed the experience of strapping one another, exploring all the different positions, and just having a gay ol’ time playing.

I am absolutely wet for Wet for Her and would highly recommend trying the Tomboi Harness Brief and Fusion Dildo for yourself and your partner. Find these and more on their website at www.wetforher.com and on IG @wetforher!

***Enter to win the Wet for Her Giveaway on my IG page!***

Stay slutty, friends!

B.

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